Millie Jaeger
Mr. Nelson
M.A.S., per. 7
16 May
I have always considered myself a motivated person. I can thank
my parents for that. They always made sure I
was working on a project in my childhood free
time. When I was older, I motivated myself to
do organization projects, plan trips or things
with friends, and do my homework. Lately, however,
the time when I should be the most motivated--the
end of high school--I feel tired. That is why
I felt it as a blessing when my dad handed me
a copy of A Student’s Guide To Success
In The Real World by John R. Jell. This
book got my energy bubbling again just in time.
It was a wonderful motivator and full of great
ideas and thoughts.
From the first page on, I was
inspired by the text largely because I could
perfectly understand it--none of those huge
words unheard of to the average person. I guess
that is Jell’s point though--a book targeted
to the average person about how to be successful.
The other point he was probably making is that
people won’t read a book, or do business
with, a person they can’t relate to, or
worse yet, are unable to communicate with. Besides
the simple language, the ideas were extremely
organized into t-charts and lists that I had
no trouble following. They were stressed once
more in the summary at the end of each chapter.
Along with the summaries were a list of questions
to reflect on and help the reader. An example
of his questions would be, “List your
goals to have achieved by five years from now,
ten years, fifteen years.” Another could
be, “On a t-chart, make a list of your
‘likes’ on one side and your ‘dislikes’
on the other. Use these lists to help you decide
what to study in college and what job to take
in the real world.” Although it wasn’t
required, I found myself answering most of his
questions, and I plan to refer back to them.
There were eleven chapters in
the book, and each divided into sub-headings.
One of my favorite chapters was Chapter Two:
The Education Cycle. Jell explains the difference
between formal and informal learning and explains
why both are important. Formal learning, he
says, “deals primarily with things we
learn in a classroom type of environment”
(14). On the other hand, informal learnings
are “experiences you learn from your environment
through your daily activities”(14). It
is very important that a person goes to college,
and while in college, become involved in co-curricular
activities. Activities help lead people to the
social and “people skills” that
a book can’t teach (19). The fortunate
thing about informal learning is that it can
make or break our future, but we are the ones
responsible for it. There is no one to blame
but ourselves if we can not work with people,
and on the other hand, no one to receive credit
but us either. We don’t rely on school
teachers or college necessarily for street smart
skills. At the end of the chapter, I wrote down
my five, ten, and fifteen year goals concerning
my education, career, and experience. I hope
to stick to them or have found something better
by the time I look back.
Chapter Five, “Identifying
your Likes and Dislikes,” was also very
informative. Effective communicators know that
a person’s favorite thing to talk about
is themselves. That’s probably one reason
I like this chapter so much--I could focus on
identifying my likes and dislikes. Jell’s
advice is to use this information to choose
your career. To identify these personal tastes,
a person should use SWOT: strengths, weaknesses,
opportunities, and threats (53). Jell asks his
readers to make a chart with these headings
and use the information to narrow down a career
of interest. Once there is a range of possibilities,
there are three questions to ask: Where am I
now? Where do I want to go? How am I going to
get there? (57). “One way,” Jell
explains, “to help you answer these questions
and refine your likes and dislikes is to use
SWOT analysis, something corporations consistently
use” (57). Any person or company can identify
what goals and routes to achieving them would
be best according to their SWOT results.
Jell talks about his own life,
which is the perfect example of how to live
out his advice. He is still young and involved
in the work force and therefore knows recent
information and shares updated advice. Plus,
his tips on interviewing and working with ethics
and treating people are timeless. One very good
point he makes is that people are the foundation
of any business. People run businesses
for people--it’s as simple as that
(of course, the aim is usually money, but you
have to deal with people before you start to
see any of that). If a person can make the employers,
employees, and consumers happy, the business
will be successful as long as the product is
marketable. No matter how professional or intelligent
a person is, unless they work for themselves
in a small room all day, they will need social
skills, and the better they are, chances are
the more successful that person will be.
Overall, I loved this book.
I was so into it that I read it cover to cover
before the assigned date and learned much. Not
only is Jell a role model of mine, he stresses
networking as part of becoming successful! (if
he could some day put in a good word for me).
The inspiration from this book has already encouraged
me to be successful this summer in my job. Although
I’m not much interested in business, the
skills I learned can apply to any profession.
I hope this book becomes a success and teaches
people to do the same!
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